Thursday, May 8, 2014

This One's For Her

For her. 

There's an amazing woman in my life who needs some recognition this Mother's Day Week so why not do it here for all to see. Not only because she's my mom, but she's the most remarkable female role model I know personally or professionally. 

Mom. 

(even though I think she'd prefer to be called "mum" by little english grandchildren... ahem, brother)



The woman who spent her 28th birthday in the hospital with me and wouldn't have rather been anywhere else.

A woman who didn't have the ideal "mother" figure herself, and rather than passing that cycle down through us has devoted her entire life to being the mother that she wishes she had. Even when it always didn't come naturally or easily to her.

She always knew when to write me a "sick note" - and often offered to do it for me because she's always wished for me to do less rather than more.  She still offers even today when she knows I'm stressed. 

She always knew that taking me for a walk would get me to open up about the things that were on my mind. 

The mother who would save all of the laundry in high school for when I was having movie night with my very-religious wasn't-going-to-try-anything boyfriend to make sure she could come downstairs and check on us. 

She's stood back and has allowed me to learn my own lessons in matters of the heart, but has also known the right time to step in and weigh her opinions on my life choices (and she has ALWAYS. BEEN. RIGHT). 

Always.  



This woman showed me how to get what I want from my dad - and the theory has actually been fail-proof with all other men and some ego-heavy women.

She knows that she is beautiful and has boosted my confidence by continually calling me the "improved version" of herself. 

She continues to impress me by reinventing herself over and over. Whether it's showing me how to be a healthier version of myself or shows me how she's challenging herself with new adventures like blogging and retirement. 



She's my hero, my role model, my everything. 

I love you, mom! 

P.S. We need some photos together, please?

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Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Confessions of a Procrastinator

Procrastination Level: Expert

This is how I've been living my week and it's only solidified that I need to get better on my focus-game. 

See, I've had some "studying" to do recently for work where I needed the comfort of my own home to really pay attention. The problem happens to be that when I'm at home surrounded by bright and shiny laptops, workout DVDs and iPhones - I don't always consider the work to be the most important thing. 

So it's time to confess how I procrastinate!

Here are real-life things that happened this weekend to put off studying:

- Emptied the dishwasher (it had been clean for 5 days)
- Ran a load of towels in the washing machine... I have plenty of clean towels (read: single)
- Cooked and photographed Cinco de Mayo dinner in "good lighting"
- Re-organized my iPhone apps
- Studied my face pores / tweezed stray eyebrow hairs
- Recorded a push-up video for my fitness group on Facebook (several re-takes, arms are sore)
- Followed tons of TIU (Tone It Up) Challengers on Instagram, just because I love sweaty selfies
- Curled 3rd day hair just to see how it'd look
- Stayed out "late" on Saturday to play Cards Against Humanity
- Watched a recording of the fitness class I took last week... just watched, didn't work out along with it
- Scrolled Netflix for something new to watch as background noise
- Scrolled Spotify for a good "study" playlist - got distracted by music instead
- Took selfies




These facts and many more solidify my thoughts that I'll never be able to go back to get my Master's degree. I just can't keep focused long enough on studying without thinking instantly that it's break time!

I think next time I need to run off to a coffee shop and turn my phone on silent.



I must know - what are the ways that you win the procrastination award and what are the situations where you do it?

Linking up with kick-ass Kathy

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Then come back tomorrow for some quality humpday confessions!

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